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Turning 20 is a significant milestone, and I’ve always dreamed of living in NYC in my twenties, embracing the city life, and working in media, beauty, or fashion. I’m thrilled to be doing exactly that, interning at Estée Lauder. For my birthday on July 11th, my boyfriend came from Virginia to ensure it was a weekend trip I’d never forget, securing us a place in New Jersey so we could enjoy both New York and New Jersey. He planned an adventurous weekend filled with surprises, love, and excitement.
Waterways
We kicked off our trip by taking the ferry to explore the iconic New York City skyline, followed by a hopeful kayaking adventure on the Hudson River. Before coming to New York, I didn’t realize the state is made up of multiple islands, giving us countless opportunities to explore different towns, beaches, and waterfronts.
Art and Nature
About a year ago, I joined a fashion and tech group that hosts events in NYC. They recently held an event at the MET Museum, screening the new “Sleeping Beauties” fashion and tech exhibit. Unfortunately, the waitlist was over two hours long, so I couldn’t get in. Determined to see it, my boyfriend got us tickets to the MET. Even though we faced another waitlist, we managed to explore several other galleries before closing. Each exhibit sparked conversations, making us feel more connected and deepening our relationship, which was especially meaningful after months of long distance.
From the elegance of the MET, we moved to Central Park. The park was buzzing with summer energy, and the New York heat made for a hell of a stride.
Thrills and Excitement
No birthday is complete without a bit of thrill, and my boyfriend knew just where to take me. We spent the afternoon at an amusement park, one of my favorite places. We rode roller coasters, indulged in funnel cake (a childhood favorite), and I got to fly in the air (literally).
Shopping and Foodie Galore
Times Square was next, with its crowds, street performers, and dazzling advertisements. We visited the largest Forever 21 I’ve ever seen and the Disney Store. i left Times Square with a new dress and some jewelry ready to wear for back-to-college season.
Then we found Anita Gelato, just a five-minute walk from Times Square. The line was out the door, and for good reason. My boyfriend, a self-proclaimed gelato critic, was eager to try it. Inside, we were greeted by a luxurious ambiance and the best gelato I’ve ever had. I chose salted caramel while he opted for chocolate pistachio.
Another foodie highlight was Cellar 335, an underground restaurant in Jersey City. The cozy, eclectic ambiance and food made for a perfect evening. We savored our steak and soup and toasted to my birthday, making the first night of my birthday weekend one for the books.
With my family and some friends unable to visit, it made me realize the importance of cherishing the people who show you love, especially in ways that resonate deeply with you. Living in New York, it’s easy to take these experiences for granted. But my birthday reminded me to appreciate every moment and the people who make them special. Each adventure, from the waterfronts to the museums, was a reminder of how lucky I am to have someone who cares so much about making me happy.
To my readers and everyone who made my 20th birthday so unforgettable, thank you. Your love and effort are the greatest gifts I could ever ask for. Here’s to more fun, laughter, and love-filled adventures in the years to come!
